Marriage Equality and the Stupid Questions.

” Here I Stand… I Can Do No Other. So Help Me God… ”
These were the words of Dr. Martin Luther the renowned Reformer of the 15th Century. It was at such a time as this, “When basic Biblical Precepts were totally discarded, and those in high offices were actually selling license to sin.” However, the stark difference today is that these licenses are wrapped in a political agenda-labeled made in America, (one size fits all) and marketed as Gay Pride.
Traditionally, a marriage license is granted to individuals, male and female who intend on being joined together in Holy Matrimony. But, In these so called modern times, legislation are being approved from state to state–granting leeway for same sex couples to be married and their marriage be recognized as equal to the marriage of a man and a woman.

All of my life, some 50 odd years–I have always known a husband to be a man and a wife to be a woman. I’ve never had to consult a dictionary, Google, wikiHow or even ask anyone. All around me, in every sector of society: my home (Mom and Dad.), the neighbors, at school, at church, in government, (the President and First Lady)– everywhere without question or conflict there were men, and there were women. Men stood boldly confident in their position as Mr… , the husband of… , and women proudly wore their Mrs… , the wife of… There were little or no questions about the identity of the man or the woman.

A woman distinctly separated herself from any appearances as a man. Even the women of ill-repute were clearly identified as mistresses. Whose mistress and how well she was paid, separated her from her competitors. Mistress, lady of the night, or by whatever name she was called ; her identity was clear–she’s a woman.
A classy woman with some measure of wealth and recognition was considered a lady. A lady–defined by her social status, would be accompanied by a distinguished, gentleman.

But, there’s a new trend sweeping across our nation; the once– black and white distinction of male and female has now confusingly become several shades of dingy grey. The impact of this shady trend is such that it’s becoming increasingly difficult to determine whether you are looking at a man or a woman. This, coupled with the (LGBT) Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transvestite community’s twisted agenda–is the sociologically complex future of our nation. Can you imagine a modern day America with a transvestite as president.  He or she conveniently interchangeable, depending on the circumstances?  Mr. President  one day and Mrs. Madam President the next. The First Lady may also be the First Man.

Have we as a nation, become so technologically advanced that we can now remove the foundation on which our civilized society has been built? Has the United States of America updated its profile to–“One nation, no longer under God”?
Nothing could be more ridiculous and unspeakably absurd as to consider, that in this 21st century, a wife can be a man, and a husband can be a woman.
Am I to believe that our national leaders expects me– a baby boomer–hooked on phonics, to follow this new-age direction and abandon my half century of learning so as to be up-to-date with this so called modern era–a society of repugnantly perverted men and women burning in sinful lust, one for the other.

In the sixties, the word gay once meant, happy or joyous. In the eighties and nineties it became synonymous with homosexuality. It has now fully matured and subtly transitioned into a whole new meaning depicting the culture of the LGBTQ. In this 21st century, the word gay simply means homosexual.
A man having sex with another man was once kept a secret shame. Furthermore, the Medical Journal prior to 1970 classified homosexuality as a mental illness; today, our consciences have become so seared that the abominable has become our national pride. This cancerous infection of human dignity, once benign–left untreated in the closet, is now a malignant epidemic.

The deceitful behavior of a cheating spouse (male or female) is abhorred as infidelity. Infidelity however, diluted into the “Gay” community, assimilates as open-mindedness.

God says’ marriage between a man and a woman, is “Honorable.” Hebrews13:4. “Same-Sex Marriage” he says’ is an “Abomination”Leviticus18:22.
There is no justice here in the eyes of Almighty God.
So here I stand, flat-footed on the eternal word of God.

Here are some of the Stupid Questions that come up…

Can Same-sex marriage be equal to a marriage between man and a Woman? The smart answer is– no.

How can two men cannot have an intimate relationship, unless one assumes the submissive role of the effeminate female?

Why would a man want a husband?
Why would a woman want a wife?

In seeking benefits as a wife, (in a partnership of two male.) how do you define the wife– When, the person in reference is actually a man?
Also, if they are pronounced as husband and husband; how can he claim benefits as a wife when he is a husband?
Well, is he the husband of a husband?
Is she, the wife of a wife?

Stupid Questions indeed.

Can they then both claim benefits as wives?

Will he be denied benefits, since they are both husbands?

When is the husband recognized as the wife?

When is the wife acknowledged, as the husband?

How many wives are there in a marriage?
How many husbands in a marriage?

In the relationship of two women, how do you claim benefits as a wife when you have a wife?

If you are not the wife in the marriage how do you claim benefits as the husband when you are also a wife?

These are just some of the stupid questions that arise in this senseless debate.

In times past, every young man’s goal was to marry a beautiful “Princess”, the girl of his dreams. Every young girl’s desire was to marry her “Knight in Shining Armor”– the young man who will fulfill her every desire. However, our society today is woefully affected by a climate of such utter darkness; that men leaving the natural use of a woman burn in their lust, one for another; men with men and likewise the women abandoning the natural desire for a man burn in their lust for each another. Committing acts which is against nature. Romans 1:26-32.

The truth is, if you are blind–it really doesn’t matter how bright the light shines. You are just… like my Grandma used to say, “You just plain ole blind.”

Consider this: In the animal kingdom, the family structure is made up of a male and a female: Dogs, Cats, Monkeys, and Rabbits just to name a few.
However, dogs and cats do not practice same sex relationships, as a matter of fact Monkeys don’t practice same sex relationships either–neither do rabbits, but College Grads do, Pastors, Ministers, so-called Christians, State Senators, Governors, Businessmen, Celebrities both in Sports and the Arts, Pan-Sexual Legislators… they all consider homosexuality an acceptable lifestyle.

If anyone is still having difficulty understanding the birds and bees basics of sexuality, and have already graduated high school, I strongly recommend tutorials– 1.”The lion king.” 2. “Finding Nemo.” These two movies should help to fill in the blanks.

The question once asked, “Are we smarter than a 5th grader?” But, the real question is– are we smarter than a monkey? Let’s quit all the silly debating over such a straightforward subject. What does the Bible say?
The facts are remarkably clear and quite understandable; we can pretend to be blind all we want to, but, I’m sure we can all hear the sound of the locomotive coming down these tracks.

In 1958, Arthur Schlesinger Jr. wrote an essay on– “The Crisis of American Masculinity”
In his essay, he asked: “WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO THE AMERICAN MALE? For a long time, he seemed utterly confident in his manhood, sure of his masculine role in society, easy and defined in his sense of sexual identity. They were men, and it did not occur to them to think twice about it.
Even well into the twentieth century… but one begins to detect a new theme emerging; the theme of the male hero increasingly preoccupied with proving his virility to himself… And by mid-century, the male role had plainly lost its’ rugged clarity of outline.
Today, men are more and more conscious of maleness not as a fact but as a problem.
The ways by which American men affirm their masculinity are uncertain and obscure. “THERE ARE MULTIPLYING SIGNS, INDEED, THAT SOMETHING HAS GONE BADLY WRONG WITH THE AMERICAN MALE’S CONCEPTION OF HIMSELF.”
This was in the year 1958. Here, we are today– with remarkable progress in so many other areas, yet we have become degenerates as humans with regards to discipline and morality.

Here’s one of those multiplying signs: A man marrying another man, seeks equality of spousal benefits as a man marrying a woman? By no means, should any society tolerate such behavior especially at a national level. If a man or a woman wants to dishonor their body in homosexual relations– then that’s their stinking, private business. We are free to do whatever we choose with your bodies. But know this– one day we will all stand before God to give an account for the deeds done. But, to ask the public to accept such a lifestyle as equal to that of a traditional marriage is absolutely ridiculous. It’s an insult to our Creator and to every right way. We may as well veto all Criminal laws, particularly “Thou shalt not kill” and Thou shalt not steal”. let Anarchy reign.

Here’s another sign. Polyamory–The whole rotten agenda of the proponents of this derogatory subject–an offspring of Marriage Equality is that married couples can share their beds with other married couples or singles and expand the network as far and wide as possible.

Furthermore, with this New-Age mindset there’ll be no limits to the number of partners, regardless of genders or age, individually or in groups and not limited to humans only.

Public Bestiality then becomes the next tabooed item on the obnoxious agenda of the–“Sexuality Freedom Fighters.” Very soon, this closet will also be emptied on the streets and parks of our nation. Then, Marriage Equality for animals and their human spouses will be the  subject for the legislature–in the New World Government.

In a recent article by Stacey Nelkin– Open-Minded about Open Marriage–She indicated that couples should be open-minded about open marriage. The question then becomes–how wide? Well, let’s see; tonight we invite the friendly, next door neighbors to share our bed. On tomorrow, for some variety–“the spice of life”, we invite the other mixed couple, across the street. By the week’s end, it’s an “Open House”; the public is invited, come- one, come-all, open your minds, explore your options, try new things, be free from all inhibitions.
Bring your dogs, cats, or whatever is your freak. Bring in the donkeys. Can anyone bring an elephant? Bigger is always better.

Can the children join the party; Oh no!–Little Bobby is only six years old.
“Go to your room boy.”
“Okay mom.” “Aaahhh… Mom can I then have some of my friends over– maybe we can have our own freedom party?”
Who sets the boundaries to this bizarre open-minded-madness?

the Stupid Questions (2016)

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